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The Crying Game / TRANSGENDER DISCUSSION
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(09-16-2014 09:33 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:  What if he/she said they were sorry and only lied because they thought you'd leave them if they told the truth? Wouldn't your leaving prove them right?

Nah, it wouldn't prove them right.

They were wrong to lie up front, knowing or suspecting that I'd have no interest in someone of the same sex biologically. Scam, part 1.

They were wrong to continue the deception til they were caught with their pants down. Scam, part 2.

They'd be wrong trying to pull the victim card or guilt me into staying in order to continue the scam once the truth came out. I'd be right to leave.

It would never happen anyway. I know the difference between a real cock and a dildo and I like to see and touch and suck what fucks me, which happens before I fall in love. I'm not looking to marry -- the whole waiting til we're in love or waiting til we're married thing has never been a deal for me. I'm an unabashed sinner!

So, this is all unrealistic hypothesis. It feels a little silly even contemplating it. Smiley_emoticons_smile





09-16-2014 10:00 PM
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I agree and now my tooth hurts for some stupid cocksucking fuck you you dumb mother fucking stupid goddamn pc. of shit left sucking a root sticking out in the road between a crack in the MOTHERFUCKING TRAIN GODDAMN TRACKS bitch.





There............. I've said it.






09-16-2014 10:08 PM
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(09-16-2014 06:57 PM)IroningBroad Wrote:  
(09-16-2014 06:37 PM)Duchess Wrote:  
(09-16-2014 04:44 PM)IroningBroad Wrote:  Would you continue a sexual as well as emotional relationship if you were ever in that position?


That's a lie of omission, I wouldn't want any kind of relationship with someone I couldn't trust. Wouldn't want them in my home let alone in my bed.


But what if you were in love? Wouldn't it be possible to try and move past that omission?Could you really walk away from the love of your life that easily?

I would think details like that would have become clear Way before the falling in love part< I am with HOTD on this one, try before you buy and all that. Doesn't make sense to wait until your locked in to do the detailed exploration





09-16-2014 10:15 PM
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(09-16-2014 10:08 PM)Maggot Wrote:  I agree and now my tooth hurts for some stupid cocksucking fuck you you dumb mother fucking stupid goddamn pc. of shit left sucking a root sticking out in the road between a crack in the MOTHERFUCKING TRAIN GODDAMN TRACKS bitch.





There............. I've said it.

After Narcolepsy, Turrets is my favorite disorder -- I might could have some fun pretending to have Turrets and then taking a nice long nap in a crowded public place.

Yeah, it would be deceptive, but I think I could rationalize it in order to just have fun blowing some PC minds.

I'm going to hell. I just know it.





09-16-2014 10:26 PM
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Yeah well............Try doing Turrets on a freakin basketball court in the center of the city.............That actually happened to me with my friend Sammy. Sammy was my Hap-Ki-Do guy that we threw each other around on the mats in the park on Saturdays. I gotta say it took a lot to get outta there without getting our asses kicked by the black guys there. We were ready though and that's what saved our asses. That and the kid that started the entire thing was a retard. What a heart racing fucking thing THAT was! I hate crap like that though , it sucks and its exhilarating at the same time.






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(09-16-2014 09:33 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:  
(09-16-2014 07:23 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote:  
(09-16-2014 07:09 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:  
(09-16-2014 06:26 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote:  It wouldn't bother you that your lover (trans-sexual or not) had blatantly lied to you and misrepresented herself in order to snag you in the first place, Clang?

It's not a post-op failure to disclose in the OP. It's a deceitful scam. I don't think God would like that one little bit.
God is all about forgiveness, I think God would be ok with it.

You're assuming that your lying lover would be repentant.

I'm not so sure someone who feels entitled to scam and mislead another person like that would be truly remorseful simply because he/she got busted.

Aside from my family, love is conditional for me. Even if the woman pretending to be a man truly had gained my love and affection, I'd be out the door without hesitation or second thoughts.

I couldn't continue to love someone romantically who thought I was such a sucker and I'm not desperate. There are plenty of genuine honest people to love.

Anyway, I'd just move on. No hate. And, I could forgive if the person was truly sorry.
What if he/she said they were sorry and only lied because they thought you'd leave them if they told the truth? Wouldn't your leaving prove them right?

I wanted to ask that exact question Clang.But I left the forum and forgot about posting it.





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(09-16-2014 10:46 PM)Maggot Wrote:  Yeah well............Try doing Turrets on a freakin basketball court in the center of the city.............That actually happened to me with my friend Sammy. Sammy was my Hap-Ki-Do guy that we threw each other around on the mats in the park on Saturdays. I gotta say it took a lot to get outta there without getting our asses kicked by the black guys there. We were ready though and that's what saved our asses. That and the kid that started the entire thing was a retard. What a heart racing fucking thing THAT was! I hate crap like that though , it sucks and its exhilarating at the same time.

For some reason I keep reading turrets as turdetts hah





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(09-16-2014 10:55 PM)IroningBroad Wrote:  For some reason I keep reading turrets as turdetts hah

Your thinking of the current Miss America pageant soon to be a Miss fire go to college for free pageant.






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No. I would not date someone of my gender or that started my gender. If I found out my SO was lying to me about it the whole time, it'd be over.

Yes... it would prove them right that if I'd known the truth I would have left... however, that doesn't /make/ them right for lying about it. That's like a first date kind of detail you share with someone. If the other person isn't comfortable with it, better to end it before it starts. If you're just hiding your gender from someone you're dating/married... then you're basically a homosexual masquerading as a heterosexual (or vice versa I guess). If you got a sex change op, you're going to go from 'lying to the world' about feeling like the opposite gender to lying to your spouse about having started out the opposite gender? It's supposed to be about finally feeling confident in your gender/sexuality. Confidence means not hiding things. Deception isn't a basis for love.

My cousin was born a girl and is now a dude. It's tough for me to even deal with him. I try to be very accepting of sexuality... but gender is something I feel like you just get assigned at birth. Just because someone doesn't like their gender they get to switch? How bout I don't like being a white person. Can I walk around with blackface on all the time and pretend I'm black?





09-17-2014 09:41 AM
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(09-17-2014 09:41 AM)Cutz Wrote:  Can I walk around with blackface on all the time and pretend I'm black?

Yes you can. I hear Harlem, West Philly, and Detroit are lovely this time of year.






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(09-17-2014 09:41 AM)Cutz Wrote:  No. I would not date someone of my gender or that started my gender. If I found out my SO was lying to me about it the whole time, it'd be over.

Yes... it would prove them right that if I'd known the truth I would have left... however, that doesn't /make/ them right for lying about it. That's like a first date kind of detail you share with someone. If the other person isn't comfortable with it, better to end it before it starts. If you're just hiding your gender from someone you're dating/married... then you're basically a homosexual masquerading as a heterosexual (or vice versa I guess). If you got a sex change op, you're going to go from 'lying to the world' about feeling like the opposite gender to lying to your spouse about having started out the opposite gender? It's supposed to be about finally feeling confident in your gender/sexuality. Confidence means not hiding things. Deception isn't a basis for love.

My cousin was born a girl and is now a dude. It's tough for me to even deal with him. I try to be very accepting of sexuality... but gender is something I feel like you just get assigned at birth. Just because someone doesn't like their gender they get to switch? How bout I don't like being a white person. Can I walk around with blackface on all the time and pretend I'm black?

Just because someone doesn't like their gender they get to switch?
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Yes,they have the choice to switch.Why should they live the gender they were assigned just to please everyone else?The only person they have to please is themselves.Nobody else gets a say.Confidence would only come to that person being who they truly see themselves to be, not who they ought to be because mother nature says so.

If you wanted to be black then by all means look for medical or non-medical ways to begin your transformation.As long as that made you happy, who cares.Live and let live.





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Jesus Christ. I'm sitting here with my daughter who THINKS she has Tourette's and you guys are talking about little gun towers.

NIGGERSSSSS!

There's my Tourette's for you.






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(09-17-2014 04:37 PM)username Wrote:  Jesus Christ. I'm sitting here with my daughter who THINKS she has Tourette's and you guys are talking about little gun towers.

NIGGERSSSSS!

There's my Tourette's for you.

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(09-17-2014 04:37 PM)username Wrote:  Jesus Christ. I'm sitting here with my daughter who THINKS she has Tourette's and you guys are talking about little gun towers.

NIGGERSSSSS!

There's my Tourette's for you.

Well, shoot. We knew she might get a glance of your screen today and didn't want her to think we were talking about her!!

But, yeah, Tourettes in turrets is a bad fucking mix. hah

Hope things go well there, French Fry (once you recover from the Odwalla withdrawal).





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