10-09-2018, 11:39 PM
(10-09-2018, 03:02 PM)username Wrote: Helloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.I'm on my way out too. I've been dealing with my lazy ass unemployed brother who has neuropathy and diabetes doesn't want to put in any effort into changing his lifestyle and uses the diabetes and neuropathy as an excuse to not help with the household responsibilities. Oh but if there is something fun he wants to goto his legs are suddenly better.
Whassup? I said in another post, I moved out of the family home in to my own 3 bedroom place. Irreconcilable differences? I don't know. I signed a year lease and I'm loving having my own space (even if I am renting for now). All I could see at "our" home was yearsssssssssss of me care taking of my daughter (she's worlds different than she was but still requires high maintenance). In the meantime, my husband was going on back packing trips, doing his karate thing. I was going nuts (more than usual) so for about a year (during counseling), I told him and the stupid counselor that I was on my way out. Nothing changed so I left. About 3 months ago.
In Los Angeles now for a quick visit. Any life changing stuff going on out there. Sally, preggo's again??
And then there's cripple number two, my Dad. He isn't as bad with his whiny and complaining but still adds to my stress. It's messed up when you can only get stress relief when you go to work.
Someday....I'll have have the courage to get my own place...someday the situation will resolve itself when Dad dies and my brother goes to homeless shelter,group home, or mental institution.