02-26-2014, 11:31 PM
Yes, Looong time ago, I was still very young, 24 or so. Cost my first marriage. Red headed puerto rican lady, several years my senior. Wife was out of town, I been working way to many hrs, got a break early one night and went to a office party. The rest was as they say history, wife found out, kicked me to the curb, took my kids, my car and my dog and went home to mom.
I was too young and stupid, knew very little about women, other than the operational parts, not even enough about that at the time.
Last time while being married for me. Went on a 5 year long Zen trip, got a lot smarter, had some really great teachers and got my shit together about fucking up so many people that didn't deserve it. Peace now with the kids, not so much with the X.
Not worth it
I was too young and stupid, knew very little about women, other than the operational parts, not even enough about that at the time.
Last time while being married for me. Went on a 5 year long Zen trip, got a lot smarter, had some really great teachers and got my shit together about fucking up so many people that didn't deserve it. Peace now with the kids, not so much with the X.
Not worth it