Have you ever joined a forum pretending to be someone else?

[The Antagonist]

Just thought of something...are we feeding her ego by talking about her still...even though we are actually talking about her alias?

There is no ego to feed, Marie. She's sad and alone and has deeper issues than any of us can imagine. Someone showed me this that she posted someplace else and it speaks volumes of this attempt to go to place where she's not welcome:

This is true with most people, I think. To lie effectively, (to an intelligent person), takes skill. And I also wonder how pathological liars keep all the lies they tell straight. But...likeXXXXX said, fabricators BELIEVE the lies they tell. And it really is sad, pathetic, even. I have dealt with many people like this in my line of work. (And other places...) They have the potential to be a great person, but the inferiority that they feel, for whatever reason, causes them to make things up. To create a whole separate, and false, personality or identity, to be what they think is accepted. These people lack confidence, self-esteem, and usually respect for other people. Me? I'm just me. This is how I am, good, bad or indifferent. I don't feel the need to try mold myself into some image of what everyone else MIGHT think is better. How totally exhausting that must be!!! And frustrating! Not to mention the fact that it never gives anyone else the chance to really know them.

I X'd out names of people she references.

And I figured out why ramsey has been 'chosen' as a good buddy - ramsey is dumber than her. She's the gullible one that believes the biker bullshit, the stories of whatever is told to her, sympathizes with her and can be manipulated to a degree by her. She feels some kind of 'power' over her where she has no other power in her life. It makes her feel good to see her stick up for her, no matter what is being said or proof given.

She can go to a shrink the rest of her life but even he can't help her if she can't tell him the truth.