10-19-2009, 11:57 AM
I think, for many guys, it's because there is an instinctive sense that you are giving up a part of manhood when you give up the hunting and acquisition game for "romance." You are now out of your hunting prime, so to speak. So, a lot of guys use women, don't want to get married, cheat like dogs, work to have threesomes, be a player, impress, pick up, etc. instead of going for romance first.