Post: #43

Yeah, we're not so normal, but I fixed my typo anyway.

Thanks user... She's not going to get better, but she's strong and has a good sense of humor, so one day at a time.

Post: #44

(01-28-2012 02:18 AM)HairOfTheDog Wrote:  Thanks user... She's not going to get better, but she's strong and has a good sense of humor, so one day at a time.

When my dad was dying, he demonstrated honor/grace like I'd NEVER seen it before. I was so proud of his courage and sense of humor....to the end. He wrote an email to everyone he knew when he was diagnosed (about 6 weeks before he died). "No sympathies please, I've had a good roll".

When it was time, my dad gave a thumbs up for that last dose of morphine. He knew.

Some people are amazing.

Best wishes to your mom and you and yours.

Post: #45

Your dad sounds amazing. I am sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 4 years ago and he too was funny and honorable to the end. We are lucky. In my business, I work with people every day who are at the end of life. Not all can refrain from getting bitter and losing their senses of humor.

I'm bringing down the thread! I really should run to the liquor store and at least have a glass of wine.

Post: #46

Write stuff down, HOTD. It's been 12 years for me and I'm starting to forget details. I remember the important stuff, but the details add to the richness of a life.

Luckily, all my offspring have my dad's beautiful blue eyes. Even the one he never got to meet. Nobody is ever really gone if you see them in others.

Post: #47

Sorry to hear about your mother, Hair. Stay strong! I would need a stiff one if I were in your shoes.