02-12-2012, 12:23 PM
(02-12-2012, 12:15 PM)Duchess Wrote:(02-12-2012, 12:15 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote: Whatever comment I made to inspire this thread was probably pure BS and I take full responsibility.
You were responding to a comment made about Bobbie Brown.
Ah, that one wasn't BS.
It surprises me when people want to blame a man for something a woman chose to do. I have done some self destructive things in my day, while romantically involved with someone. I would never blame the man I was with or allow anyone else to blame him for my poor choices, even if he had a part in the scene. Insulting to assume that a woman is that powerless (unless we're talking domestic abuse and such where there is no safe out, whole 'nother story there).