01-17-2013, 02:40 PM
(01-17-2013, 02:29 PM)Duchess Wrote:(01-17-2013, 02:02 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote: unburying old shit
In your opinion, why do you think some people do that? Why do they hang on to bs instead of moving on?
IDK. Comfort zone or control maybe; bringing up familiar things that the other person can't change might be empowering during a disagreement.
Or, could be that I'm really not sensitive enough sometimes and let go of things entirely, assuming that the other person did too (when it's actually festering).
I do better with people (friends and lovers) who are either willing to walk away completely or really mean it when they say that something is resolved.