01-03-2009, 07:21 PM
ramseycat Wrote:I can understand that Sally.
My ex-FWB's wife also has an FWB. I asked him why they stay married if they both want different things. He said for the kids. And he said he doesn't care that she has an FWB. So I guess some people get past the guilt by saying to themselves that they are not the only one doing it. I don't know. I have never been a cheater. I am just not like that. But I am in no position to judge others seeing as how I was the OW for a time there.
I can understandif they are just staying together for the kids andthey both know thattheir relationship is in the shitter anyway. I dont judge either, there could be a lot of different situations.
I do judge someone who is in a loving relationship though and goes out and cheats or even fucks someone elsein their own bedand then acts likenothing happened. Thatsjust disgusting.