05-09-2016, 09:21 PM
My father's 4th and current wife is in the hospital, she probably will not make it. My uncle asks if I want to go visit him and I say, "No" but with hesitation. I hate making decisions like this and I hate trying to figure out what to do in situations like this.
To give you background on my fathers and mine relationship-we did not talk for almost 20 years. I reached out for relationship a couple years back and it fizzled out when it was one sided on who was doing the reaching out.
My sisters will not have anything to do with him, and I am supposed to spend time with them this evening before I go back over the mountain tomorrow.
Why would I give a night up with my sisters to go be with my dad who has not been there in our lives?
Because its the right thing to do.
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To give you background on my fathers and mine relationship-we did not talk for almost 20 years. I reached out for relationship a couple years back and it fizzled out when it was one sided on who was doing the reaching out.
My sisters will not have anything to do with him, and I am supposed to spend time with them this evening before I go back over the mountain tomorrow.
Why would I give a night up with my sisters to go be with my dad who has not been there in our lives?
Because its the right thing to do.
?