06-11-2016, 06:22 PM
(06-11-2016, 05:24 PM)Donovan Wrote: Honest feelings are honest. But the thing Blueberry hill spoke about are the very things that make me understand if my son came out as gay it wouldn't be because he chose it, it would be because it was what he was. There is still plenty of mindless unreasoning hate in the world for something that is no one else's concern. People targeted or beaten or vilified or even killed for just the suspicion of being gay. I'll be damned if my son or anyone's is going to see my voice added to those others he will face. I prefer to be the proud father standing next to him daring the first son of a bitch to go ahead and say something. See what happens.
I am happy that u feel this way....more people should...
My disclaimer in my comment says, I selfishly would do the following......I am quite aware of what I said and I stand by every word.....it was not a putdown, a discriminatory remark, or anything else, but my own selfish feelings which I stated. Get over it..... although you see yourself as the savior of all mankind......you do understand that being gay is not a choice, don't you? You have me all confused and you shouldn't confuse ole' ladies......O.K. you are a better person than me.....and....does that make you happy, now?
Sally, you are right on point. Again selfishly, I want a blood grandchild.....but wait, I do have 6 grandchildren and another one due in Sep.......but, even if gay or lesbian couples use their own eggs/sperm, the other partner has to legally adopt the child born into this union. I didn't know we were going to get so fucking analytical. You can be my legal assistant, o.k.? I am going to have to confer with a book on law before I ever make another comment.......