10-02-2016, 05:56 PM
(09-30-2016, 09:09 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: Well Clang, whatever it takes, whatever works for you. It starts with you. Your thoughts have power, it starts with a thought. The 'wanting' to have a different life, is your REAL 'Clang' or your inner 'Clang', that's wants a higher path for you of what is possible for you to achieve in life. It starts with a thought, at least start fighting the
Who's to say that you are going to get married. You have to be happy and complete and have a happening scene going on in your life with or without a partner. You may have a series of girlfriends. People come in and out of your life. Your love life is a journey, you never know which road it is you are going to go on. I think that you are a good person, with some work to do on yourself. I think you may have some baggage to work through, that means making an appointment and talking to someone, or someone within your budget that you can afford. There is all sorts of ways to work on yourself. Maybe it is something as simple as taking a designated 30 minute walk everyday, it's not that hard, baby steps......AND we are all a work in progress, not just you.
I don't know if I can...I'm too good a person. Too nice. Too people pleasing. Too much a coward. As my Dad said the other day. "Look at laziness and you can change your environment, start to imagine your life differently.
you acting all independent, forgetting he lives with other people." I wish I had the courage to say "Fuck you, Dad. Just because I take care of you, doesn't mean I don't have a right to live my own life." Or doing another co-worker's work because he's on vacation.
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