12-17-2016, 07:07 PM
(12-17-2016, 10:00 AM)ramseycat Wrote: If the kids are 18 there is no custody. You probably do gave financial arrangements such as who pays for school, insurance, ect. but basically the kid goes where he wants and lives with who he wants.
That doesn't work for me. If I'm going to build a nest elsewhere, my husband is going to have the kids at his place part time. Period. I guess I just have to tell the kids (somehow--preferably without completely alienating them) that they're not welcome at my place certain times. And my husband will have the option to do the same (to be fair).
My son is moving on with his life but I don't see a point where my daughter is going to be independent for I don't know how long. That's the crux of the problem (and the way my husband is with her...enabler). Huh.
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