01-05-2019, 04:02 AM
I don't think it's ever a good idea to pressure a person to change against their will when it comes to romantic relationships.
But, people's wants/needs aren't stagnant, in my experience.
They can change naturally/willingly for any number of reasons, including the wants/needs of someone they really love.
I've known people who didn't tell their significant others what they really wanted/needed for fear of coming across pushy. So, they never got it and were surprised when their exes gave it to someone else happily.
And, I've known men and women who walked away from relationships because they didn't want to contemplate change and later regretted it.
I don't know. I suspect as long as you're not suppressing or denying your own true needs/wants for fear that your boyfriends will think you're trying to change them, the relationships progress or end as they should.
But, people's wants/needs aren't stagnant, in my experience.
They can change naturally/willingly for any number of reasons, including the wants/needs of someone they really love.
I've known people who didn't tell their significant others what they really wanted/needed for fear of coming across pushy. So, they never got it and were surprised when their exes gave it to someone else happily.
And, I've known men and women who walked away from relationships because they didn't want to contemplate change and later regretted it.
I don't know. I suspect as long as you're not suppressing or denying your own true needs/wants for fear that your boyfriends will think you're trying to change them, the relationships progress or end as they should.