IS THIS BULLSHIT OR APPROPRIATE?

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I'd have to know more about both the dad and mother to say. If the father is some truly evil bastard and the kids have legitimate reasons for not wanting ANY type of relationship with their father, I think it's bullshit.

If however, their refusal is really just based on bitch mom's talking down their father for no good reason, I think SHE deserves some jail/camp time (perhaps along with a big, fat fine for good measure).

You'd think a court appointed family therapist could unravel all of this and find out what's really going on.

I hate when two supposed adults can't seemingly go through a divorce without making it as painful and horrible a process as possible for their kids.

I can kind of see why a judge might say "listen assholes, until you can learn to play nice together, neither ONE of you gets to see the kids". It's not fair to the kids but one or both of these parents is totally fucked in the head. Going back to what I wrote originally, I need to know more about Papa (especially).