09-28-2016, 04:45 PM
(09-28-2016, 04:00 PM)sally Wrote:(09-27-2016, 06:12 PM)Clang McFly Wrote: I've given up on love. I will die alone. Friend Zone Forever. My dating life/experience is almost zero, except for 2 dates with a psycho and 3 months over 20 years ago. I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?
You look fine, just not as a woman. As I said before you look like a younger David Letterman. And I'm sure he gets all kinds of pussy.
Clang, I will say this to you.
When you're in the presence of a woman you like and would like to get to know better, carry yourself with confidence, or even nonchalance.
Don't look desperate, or allow desperation to ooze from your pores.
Women will pick up instantly on what you have going for you, how interesting you are, etc.
In your case, use humor and wit.
But you also have to be able to follow through if someone takes you up on going out for a date.
Would you bring someone back to your place with Dad and Bro?
Your living situation may ultimately be too big of a hurdle to building a relationship. I don't believe any woman would be seriously interested in someone of your age living with kin.
Might be time to make a change.