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[sally]

Tell your friend in Miami that you'd love to, but it's too much to take a flight out to Miami and then miss work when you've already missed more than you can afford. Go to the sucky ass mountains and make the most of it. Miami is a lot of fun and some great places to eat, but taking a flight out and missing work is such a pain in the ass. A mountain cabin is just as fun, although a different type of fun. I'd personally rather go to Miami, but having to take a flight just for a few days and then have to fly back isn't worth it to me. I'd do that when I have a good week to spend there on vacation time.

Thanks, sally. I'm going to take your advice and go on the less fun adventure at the cabin. Maybe later this summer, my friend will go to Miami again and give me more notice and we can fly down together. I hate doing stuff alone. Especially flying.

It's probably your smartest and easiest bet. Planes really suck between boarding and then thinking you could die at anytime. Statistically you have a better chance of dying while driving, but the thought is still there regardless. I always feel like if I'm going through the uncomfortable experience, it should be for more than just visiting a place for a couple of days.