06-22-2021, 09:05 PM
(06-22-2021, 04:31 PM)cannongal Wrote:(06-22-2021, 02:47 PM)Duchess Wrote:(06-22-2021, 01:22 PM)sally Wrote: any parent that allows a child to make that decision is fucked up. That's too big of a decision for a child to make
I don't believe it's a choice.
It's not a choice for some children, but it is for most. Children learn what they live. Sally didn't go into the background of who the child was playing with at the time.
When my oldest son was 5, I lived in a place that had a lot of girls around. They painted his nails, dressed him in pink bows and ruffles, and made him play with dolls. My ex was pissed at the time, because 'no son of his' was going to be a faggot. I couldn't have cared less. He (my son) is married and has his own kids now, but because of the connections I let him make - *read this as 'I didn't force him to choose a gender in kindergarten!*- he now knows how to paint fingernails and take care of a baby.
Sally, was your friends kid exposed to mostly boys, while growing up? Also, is your friend an 'enlightened parent ' . I hope not, I hate those people.
I really don't know, I do know that she was molested by her cousin when she was three years old. I dont know if that contributed to it or not. I do know that my friend told her to just wait unit she is 18 to make a like changing decision that you may regret. She is now on testosterone and all that.