01-16-2022, 10:58 PM
(01-16-2022, 08:33 PM)sally Wrote: I can't escape it right now because I'm 46 years old and have a 10 year old and all of our assets are mutual. I'm fucking miserable, but with that said I really don't have any desire for men. Seriously.
I'm throwing the bullshit flag; you have no clue what you can do until you research the problem, look at all the options and make an adult decision. You need professional advice (financial and legal); I would also say spiritual advice, but you would take that wrong. So, find an attorney you trust, a CPA you trust and start asking questions. Then find an Indian shaman with snake oil and rattles and listen to him chant to his dead ancestors till you find something that feeds your soul. I don't give a shit if it's bowling, finger painting, making pornos with midgets or playing the William Tell Overture on your sweaty arm pit while streaking on the beach in Rio. Sex should be the last thing on your to do list. Remember, you make the rules. It is your happiness to define; no one else can make you happy. Deciding we've made a mistake and looking at other options is every person's right.
Just keep in mind my gracious offer when you are ready
