01-16-2022, 11:20 PM
(01-16-2022, 11:07 PM)sally Wrote: 30 fucking years Pappy and I'm only 46! That's a long fucking time to be with someone and build a life together which is mostly for your three kids and then just get up and walk away. Way easier said than done.
There are solutions, counseling, marriage counseling, open relationship, trial separation long before divorce. You built a life together, that took time. It will take time to separate those lives as well. Just keep your eyes open, your head straight and your mind in focus.
There are solutions, ask questions and look at your options.
Have you even talked to him about your feelings? If he is half a man, he will meet you in the middle and change the things you abhor.