02-11-2011, 01:36 PM
(02-11-2011, 01:59 AM)shitstorm Wrote:(02-10-2011, 11:58 PM)allieayy Wrote: I have been creeping on this forum for days, and decided to put in the little bit that I know.
I met Lisa when I was a freshman in high school. She truly was the girl that I wanted to be. She was bold, had many friends, she was very pretty, and was known as a bit of a party girl.
Though I lost contact with her over the years, she wasnt completely out of my life, as she lived with one of my best friends up until November/December. (I wanna say late November but I'm not certain)
So Lisa was living with my good friend, E. They had been best friends since grade school and got an apartment together. E soon came to have problems with Johnny, who, as many have speculated, was a sketchy drug dealer. Maytee was very, very wrong when she said her son had no enemies.
E often complained about Johnny showing up at the apartment, uninvited, even when Lisa wasn't home, often bringing his "sketchy" friends. Eventually, she told Lisa that Johnny wasn't allowed over anymore.
There was an incident which resulted in the two girls terminating their lease, which is when Lisa returned to live with her parents in Holland. Johnny had showed up, though not allowed. Somehow an argument broke out between him and E. She told him he needed to leave and he punched her in the stomach. Now E is a 100 pound girl, but she said that he punched her so hard that it took her a minute to be able to steady herself and catch her breath. Johnny then left, the girls put the chain lock on, and he tried to get back in. When he gave up, he slammed the door so hard that it jammed into the frame, and E's dad had to come take it off the hinges in order to let them out of the apartment.
Love Lisa, but she stood up for Johnny and E couldn't hang with it anymore, so they broke off their lease.
E isn't the only one of Lisa's friends that didn't want to be around Johnny. From what it seems of my friends that remained in contact with her, most of the people she hung out with were his friends. Alot of her more "tactful" friends didn't want to see her when he was around. And he came around whenever he pleased.
Wow. Thanks for that (presuming it's true).
I noticed that on the Justice for Johnny & Lisa FB page that all of the people are Johnny's friends. No long time friends of Lisa have left comments. Two different worlds.
I'll bet that Lisa's parents were not fans of Johnny.
A lot of her friends joined the page. But as its been mentioned many times before, LS's side of this isn't flaunting what happened. in the days after her death, there were a lot of RIP facebook status's, a few childhood photos posted of her and friends, and some get togethers to celebrate her life. a friends facebook status says "W.W.L.D" (What would Lisa do?) and comments are made often about missing her.
I think a main difference is that JC's friends and family are a lot of "we'll find who did this to you" whereas LS's side blames Johnny for it. And you can't exactly put that up on the memorial page.
All in all LS's friends and family have found a more private way to grieve and feel no need to let everyone witness that process.