02-14-2011, 11:20 AM
(02-14-2011, 11:00 AM)RaisingAPrince Wrote:(02-14-2011, 10:44 AM)Freshbait78 Wrote:Quote:Thanks for this info Kitty. I am curious if her ex was there or if he was one that wasn't allowed?
i'm not sure about that. there were pics of him there.
I'm fairly stunned about this. Let's see, he had a TRO against him from the family, he alledgedly punched her friend in the stomach, and beat her to where people have claimed on this board that they SAW her beaten, and they have photos of him at the funeral?? Seriously? I see that being wrong on so many levels. The girl lies dead in a casket because of the violence and people she surrounded herself with, and they have pics of her and ANOTHER MAN WHO WAS PHYSICALLY VIOLENT AND STALKING HER at her funeral?? I might be in the minority, but WTF were people thinking? That would be the damn day I would put pics of my daughter and an abusive ex up at her funeral! Jesus. And we wonder why the abuse and degradation of woman continues in this country?? I am really upset that they did that if its true, and please don't post soemthing as trite as "Well, they really loved each other TILL HE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HER, they were a great coupld TILL HER PARENTS TOOK OUT A TRO on him for harrassment and trespassing...UGH
You aren't the minority & I'm glad you said something about this, I noticed it too. As I said previously somewhere in this thread I can't see myself condoning any kind of abusive relationship & if the ex BD is as bad as he was made out to be, why allow him at the funeral & put pictures of them up? If he couldn't show her respect in life, I don't see why he'd be allowed to come show respects in death. JMO
I'm not sure I believe all the "rumors" about the ex. JC's mom is one of the ones saying he was an abusive ex, etc. Perhaps they had a rough relationship. Maybe he was abusive, which is NEVER ok, BUT you have to remember they did have a relationship and I'm sure he cared about her. Even if things didn't end well, he's mourning as well. As far as we know, he hasn't caused any problems with this case.
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The Ex BD didn't punch her friend in the stomach, it was JC who allegedly punched her friend/roommate at the time in the stomach, and some other things which led to the friend and LS not being roommates or really friends anymore.