02-15-2011, 01:21 PM
(02-15-2011, 12:32 PM)RaisingAPrince Wrote: RE: Lisa's Ex being at the funeral
I never defended him or said anything he did was ok. I just think HE is the last thing on the Straub's mind and if they didn't have a problem having him at the funeral, who are we to judge. Obviously if they didn't want him there he wouldn't have been allowed in.
Who are we to judge? This thread is 188 pages long with ALOT of judgements going on, mostly directed at Maytee & JC. The EX was clearly on the minds of LS's parents when they sat down to make out the list of those welcome at the funeral & THAT to me is telling. I've said it before & I'll say it again, I believe that if both sides of parents had it to do over again, they would have made some different choices. BOTH made shitty choices IMO The Straubs Inviting someone who abused their daughter at one point in her life is a shitty choice, no different than some shitty choices made by the family of the other victim that people don't seem to have a problem making judgements against.
Oh just an FYI, although I tried like Hell to defend Maytee from the beginning because I believe everyone grieves differently, I now acknowledge that she is in fact a fruit loop. That being said I do not think she played a part in any murder plot or robbery against her son. I'm just trying to be fair to both sides.