02-27-2011, 04:53 PM
(02-27-2011, 04:43 PM)Lady Cop Wrote:(02-27-2011, 04:39 PM)wanttoknow Wrote: Sometimes you have to keep it together. She has a young son at home.
2 boys at home. that need their parents now. i can't imagine their terror, grief and confusion. they need to feel secure and safe. she has to get a grip FOR THEM. i hope the father is rational.
Yes, thank God the father is in the home & I hope he's rational & he does seem rational. I can only say this, after my father was killed I tried to keep it together because I felt that as a single mother I had no other option, so I did not grieve & that led to my panic/anxiety disorder which I have now learned to manage naturally (because I despise drugs) I don't think that "keeping it together" is always healthy or the best thing, it prolonges the inevitable & makes it worse in some cases. I say let her vent.