What do young people say about you?

[Duchess]

I kind of want to say something to her but I would have to know for certain that it wouldn't get out that my kids had said something.

People always say they want truth & honesty but often when they get it feelings get hurt and people get angry. Don't say anything. You can't trust her not to say it came from you when she confronts her kid. You don't want your child's school life made miserable because you tried to do the right thing. If it got out that it was you who told, your kid/s will pay the price.