01-22-2012, 06:52 PM
Lie, lie, lie. And don't feel a bit badly about it.
My ex drinks and smokes in front of his kids (new family) and the oldest two started drinking and drugging and humping in 6th grade. A neighbor boy almost died (OD'd) at their house around Thanksgiving and they had to call the ambulance. The other set of parents buy booze for him, too, so they weren't surprised or mad. I want to bitch slap them all.
Lie. It is a favor. When they are grown, you can come clean. Until then, you can be sued for what they do.
Being lied to didn't hurt my grown kids. They still call every day to check in or ask stuff. I'm pretty sure they call me the "Money Fairy", but other than that, it's all good.
My ex drinks and smokes in front of his kids (new family) and the oldest two started drinking and drugging and humping in 6th grade. A neighbor boy almost died (OD'd) at their house around Thanksgiving and they had to call the ambulance. The other set of parents buy booze for him, too, so they weren't surprised or mad. I want to bitch slap them all.
Lie. It is a favor. When they are grown, you can come clean. Until then, you can be sued for what they do.
Being lied to didn't hurt my grown kids. They still call every day to check in or ask stuff. I'm pretty sure they call me the "Money Fairy", but other than that, it's all good.