06-17-2013, 02:49 PM
(06-17-2013, 01:06 PM)Duchess Wrote:(06-17-2013, 10:41 AM)ZEROSPHERES Wrote: Where is this complaint? I responded to you in open forum as you had explained to me why you removed the chop in open forum. The statement that "it was derived from his avatar" was not a complaint but just a statement of fact and was not made for any other purpose. My response was not made to place you in judgment by the membership and I made it not expecting an apology or correction by you. I am surprised that you see it in any other way.
Zero, I wouldn't consider divulging a private conversation & I'm almost certain you know that.
You were aware that I immediately saw the error of my ways and had rectified my mistake. I gave you the courtesy of an apology within moments yet you still felt compelled to take it up with a Mocker. I wouldn't presume to know what moved you to do so but I know from others that this isn't the first time you have acted in a passive aggressive way behind the scenes, just because I don't call you out on it doesn't mean that I'm not aware of it.
I see what happened now. And it is a misunderstanding. When you removed my 'chop' from the post I had been interacting with CN at the time. I did not expect that it would be reinstated, so I just sent it to him with the header, 'Duchess deleted this from the thread'. Now I don't see that as a pissy complaint nor do I see it as passive aggressive behaviour. I don't use expletives or ad hominem attacks as they are harmful if you care about the issue. The fact is that I sent him in a PM a response I had made in open forum that was edited out of the thread and I explained that it had been edited out and I did it before I saw your apology and your request to send it to you in a PM. There was no intention to be passive aggressive, only for him to see what I could not show him in open forum. I am going to forward you the PM chronology and a copy of my PM to CN to bare this out.