12-13-2013, 09:42 PM
(12-13-2013, 08:56 AM)SIXFOOTERsez Wrote: To me, I think its better to get the abortion if thats what you think you need to do, its better that a kid be raised in a safe, secure caring environment rather than say shuffled off into the CPS system as a ward of the state, or raised in the hood with abuse and depravity. I think that while a person should be responsible for and take care of their own messes, thats simply not the way human societies work. People get addicted, people get stupid, people are fucked up, thats not the kind of people that raise kids to be decent adults, they are kind that raise them to be the same addicted, stupid fucked up adults. Thats means WE, the rest of us have to pay the freight for them, deal with them and defend ourselves from them. I don't like living that way, but thats where we are.
I think you might be wrong about that. I think a large majority of women who have abortions do it simply because they feel that it's not the right time to have a baby for whatever reason whether it be selfish or not and use it as a form of birth control, not because they wouldn't make a good mother otherwise. They are most likely the ones that would make a good mother.
No one thinks to themselves that they are going to be abusive so it's best to abort. The mind doesn't work that way. The ones that are truly fucked up and abusive are usually the ones that keep the pregnancy.