Crushes.

[Piglet]

Not so much now but i had it bad in my twenties, even now i think i was in love with Marilu Henner in Taxi, and Shelley Long in Cheers.   Marilus hair was a big thing for me, for some reason,  they had a vibe that transfixed me.   With Long it was a her openess and vulnerabilty, when her heart broke, so did mine.   And yet in real life she was a snooty, primped up asshole.

Yet more reason to love her, and being snooty is a vulnerability. Physically she was perfect, and that smile. 

Henner was just gorgeous, struggling, prickly, assertive, a goddess.  I had a thing for Meryl Streep, and that polak accent in Sophies choice, Gladys Pugh in hi de hi, theres a theme in there, damsels in distress, with me coming to the rescue.  Watch out Mirah.    I lost the thread where i asked you Duchess if you were an infp, did you look it up?  Self knowledge is power.

[Duchess]

   I lost the thread where i asked you Duchess if you were an infp

It appears that way.

https://mockforums.net/thread-15997-post...#pid891182

[Piglet]

There you go, your welcome. If you learn more about what an INFP is then you can manage yourself better, and stop beating yourself up over your weaknesses, you were built like it.

Chango, if you read this, i reckon your an ISFJ, thats introversion, no doubt about that, theres no need to feel bad about that, im one too, and would pick it over being extrovert. Sensing, that means that you mostly experience life through your senses, like smoking, eating, watching etc, feeling, you are a feeler and are sensitive, and a judger, you have opinons, about all around you.

Which spells out isfj. Your type is described as the defender, you are family orientated and would do anything for the people you care about, too much so.

Am i right?

No charge, im british. Look up isfj on you tube. You could look up assholes too, that fits as well. Hehehe.

[Duchess]

There you go, your welcome.  If you learn more about what an INFP is then you can manage yourself better

I took this test-- https://www.16personalities.com/profile

I agree with a lot of it, but there is some I don't.

[Piglet]

There are always variations, but if your honest with yourself you will know, you can look into other IN types. You are an introvert, tick, you are definetely an intuitive, tick, you are a feeler, no doubt there, tick, sometimes i worry that ive hurt you too much, i know you ruminate.

Are you a perciever, i think so, you are an observer rather than a doer, you dream more than act. It adds up to INFP. You are a rare bird indeed. What other things are there that the above does not contain? O dear, thats the other thing about infps, you wont say, it takes a lot to earn your trust, a lot.

[Duchess]

 sometimes i worry that ive hurt you too much

It's all good, Piggy. You haven't hurt me at all.

[BigMark]

What a pain.

[Clang McFly]

There you go, your welcome.  If you learn more about what an INFP is then you can manage yourself better, and stop beating yourself up over your weaknesses, you were built like it.

Chango, if you read this, i reckon your an ISFJ, thats introversion, no doubt about that, theres no need to feel bad about that, im one too, and would pick it over being extrovert.  Sensing, that means that you mostly experience life through your senses, like smoking, eating, watching etc, feeling, you are a feeler and are sensitive, and a judger, you have opinons, about all around you.

Which spells out isfj.    Your type is described as the defender, you are family orientated and would do anything for the people you care about, too much so.

Am i right?

No charge, im british.  Look up isfj on you tube.      You could look up assholes too, that fits as well.  Hehehe.

https://youtu.be/Pw2sex1mJNI

[Piglet]

Liar.

[Clang McFly]

Liar.

I know you are but what am I?

[Piglet]

There you go, i was expecting a fight. You are an INFP, through and through Duchess, 100 carat, etc, and i can prove it. You impart very little, your love of football is a little bit youve let out. If you look up the mbti site, it has a generalisation of all the types, like chingo, he is the defender type. Have you looked it up chompo? you will say no just to be your usual passive aggressive ISFJ self.

You are an invigilator, a moderator on here Duchess, and i suspect thats your role in most things in life, your job, your family, friends etc. Ha, you still work, i wonder what you do. You must be wondering how i can make such judgements of you, yes, im an intuitive as well, we are similar. I can feel your feelings from here, and at this point you will become fierce and retaliate, or want to.

So anyway, your mbti wotsit is...........a mediator,.......... invigilator, moderator........there you go. The last thing you want is discord.

[Piglet]

p.s, are you an ice hockey referee? or something like that.

[Duchess]

   The last thing you want is discord.

Discord promotes posting.

[Duchess]

p.s, are you an ice hockey referee? or something like that.

Something like that.

[Duchess]

   You are an INFP, through and through Duchess, 100 carat, etc, 

It's said that only 5% of the female population are INFP. Why am I a unicorn?

Also, I read that INFP's are dreamers. I'm not a dreamer. 

[Clang McFly]

   You are an INFP, through and through Duchess, 100 carat, etc, 

It's said that only 5% of the female population are INFP. Why am I a unicorn?

Also, I read that INFP's are dreamers. I'm not a dreamer. 

I used to be a daydreamer. Then reality and time smacked me right in the dick.

[Duchess]

I think one can be a daydreamer without being termed a dreamer. I think there's a difference. I daydream about people & places, but I'm a realist.

[Piglet]

You have interpersonal gifts that are probably yet to be realised, or if they are, you need to do more. When my marriage went west, i wanted to find out why, and its been a revelation as to who i am. You dont need to do that as im telling you, maybe you doing that journey needs to be made for you to get it emotionally.

This is what it comes down too, you are an introvert, ypour unique gifts are part of that, but its also the thing that prevents you from moulding the world around you,....for the better.

TO BE BLUNT, ITS ABOUT GETTING THINGS OUT THERE. Experssing yourself. Which means conquering your introversion, not easy but it can be done.

The days of keeping my gob shut are over, i will go toe to toe. The effect is astonishing, new worlds have opened up, so it will for you. Sermon over, best of luck, the world needs you.

Dreams over, make it happen. p.s, self esteem sky rockets, etc.

Chango, do you know what a scalextrics is, ? im sure youd like it.

[Clang McFly]

Chango, do you know what a scalextrics is, ?  im sure youd like it.

Slot car racing? I did briefly as a kid want to buy the various Hot Wheels race tracks and play sets. And I did enjoy playing with cars in the dirt hill behind the house, but now I enjoy displaying my toys rather than playing with my toys. I still enjoy dress up and pretend though.