What the fuck difference does it make where the the cum goes, whether it's on your tits, down your throat or in your vagina? There is nothing unusual or humiliating about being jizzed on during sex. It has nothing to do with watching porn. Now if the woman wanted to be gang banged by a bunch of black guys with unusually large dicks then I might think she has some psychological problems going on.

If you really want to analyze it, I would say that taking a shot down the throat or holding it in your mouth as you run to the toilet trying not to gag is worse than just getting it on your boobs.

(12-02-2013, 12:42 PM)sally Wrote: What the fuck difference does it make where the the cum goes, whether it's on your tits, down your throat or in your vagina? There is nothing unusual or humiliating about being jizzed on during sex.

I've had a couple of sexual relationships that weren't with men that I loved; they just didn't mature to that point. But, I've never been a bed-hopper or involved with more than one person at a time (don't think that people who have casual sexual relationships with multiple partners and are honest about it are doing anything wrong, just isn't right for me). Anyway, most of my sexual relationships have been with men that I loved and spanned years.

In either case, never thought getting a little messy with the bodily fluids was "kinky" or anything either - pretty standard stuff in my view. Except for a couple of movies back in my early 20s, watching porn has never made it on the agenda. I'd be open to it if it came up, though.

Anyway, being really close with someone for a long period of time makes me more open and adventurous in terms of sexual intimacy, as compared to newer relationships. Everyone's different though, so maybe CN's just the opposite with time and age? That's probably not uncommon.

Or, maybe he's got that whole Madonna/Whore Complex going on? Hope not; that could be pretty debilitating.

A man diagnosed with the Madonna/Whore Complex does not want to have a wife who is “a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom.” He wants his wife to be a lady in public and in the bedroom. He does not want her to be sexually aggressive, or whorish (in his view). He wants her to be pure in mind and body, virginal in every way. For him, love does not equal sex nor does sex equal love.

For women brought up believing “good girls don’t,” marriage is supposed to be when “good girls do.” Even though she links love, marriage, and sex together, marriage to a man with the Madonna/Whore Complex will be essentially sexless. There may be enough sexual encounters to start a family, but with a child or children comes even more sexual distance. Once she’s a mother, he has even more reason not to “defile” her with sex. She loves him but she is increasingly bitter because he won’t give her the kind of sexual intimacy she desperately craves.

I have never had two women desire or enjoy the exact same things in the bedroom. Women are as different and mercurial as men are static and predictable. None of their psychic "oh hell YEAH" buttons are ever exactly the same which makes for a very interesting couple of months doing exploratory sex. I've had girls really into being "humiliated" and treated roughly who were perfectly normal in public, and girls who were all smoke and mirrors: wildcats at the club and dead fish in the sack. They're all different, and the trick is finding one whose needs and desires mesh with yours. I can't do the ST humiliation thing. Or most "gimmick" sex for that matter. It feels silly and contrived and mostly a put on by the people pretending to be into it. There are a lot of people getting their acting lessons from bad pornos, male and female. And when I find myself with a thespian in the bedroom I get irritated and work her into a frenzy until she forgets how to talk. Once when I was younger and meaner I got a woman in a quivering trembling mass and then just got up and left. Probably the nastiest thing I ever did in the bedroom.

I don't know what ST humiliation or gimmick sex is, but if I had to choose a place for the cum to go I'd would prefer the breasts. I kinda like it, it's easy clean up and I won't get pregnant. I think that's pretty sensible.

It was supposed to be S&M but apparently my phone isn't into it either
gimmick sex is bells and whistles and costumes and latex and any stupid shit that has to be laced up, buckled down, hooked to the ceiling, prepared in an oven, etc. Sex is sex. And if you're doing it right everything else is just props to be discarded.

(12-02-2013, 11:57 AM)Cynical Ninja Wrote: I was young, dumb and full of come but then I grew up and became an adult...


my yoghurt cannon

Doesn't seem to be working out too well.. j/s

I was guessing ST to be "sex toys" or "suicidal tendencies" or "strip tease".

Never heard of "gimmick sex", but playing around, slow dancing for a long time, dressing up...on occasion is just plain fun, for us anyway. Not a toy person, though.

I never understood the attraction to making sex tapes, sex in public and that sorta stuff, but a lot of people seem to like that kind of thing.

One person's freaky is another person's dull.

Whatever works...

(12-02-2013, 10:47 AM)HairOfTheDog Wrote: ---How about Australian men, crash?
I'm betting you've exchanged fluids on various body parts with women who aren't sex industry workers and aren't ugly. Did you think they were lacking self respect and that you'd humiliated them in so doing?

I can't speak for all Australian men, only in my experience, and in that sense, no, it's been a personal taste thing.

Personally, I don't like to come on a woman's face. I'm not sure if that's a hang up from watching the typical porn scene where it can be interpreted as the guy forcing some kind of dominance over the woman or whether it's just an inherent dislike, like not eating celery.

There have been cases where in the heat of the moment, a woman has asked me to and I have obliged and to be honest, it was fucking hot, so I guess it's all about context. I certainly don't remember walking around looking at her from that point on in a different light, thinking 'you dirty whore, you let me come on your face', more the opposite like 'You goddamned sexy mama, nothing is hotter than a woman that knows what she wants and asks for it '

(12-02-2013, 03:36 PM)sally Wrote: I don't know what ST humiliation or gimmick sex is, but if I had to choose a place for the cum to go I'd would prefer the breasts. I kinda like it, it's easy clean up and I won't get pregnant. I think that's pretty sensible.

Sally, you just jumped to the top of my 'fuck chain' (much to your displeasure I'm sure).

I think shooting a load on a beautiful set of tits is amazing, and far from degrading to the woman.

I think Crash mentioned coming on a woman's face and how that can be perceived as some sort of dominating, degrading act, and I'd tend to agree, unless she really enjoyed it.

(12-02-2013, 09:28 AM)HairOfTheDog Wrote:

(12-02-2013, 08:28 AM)Cynical Ninja Wrote: Only three types of women let guys spunk on their tits and humiliate them, porno stars, hookers and ugly desperate women.

WTF are you talking about, CN?

Why do you assume letting a man ejaculate on our chests or other parts of our bodies is humiliating for women?

We don't have to be porn stars, hookers or ugly/desperate women to like mixing it up - just because it's fun.

Jesus, you sound more presumptuous than MS. He's a presumptuous perv, but at least he doesn't come across as a misogynistic frigid ultra-conservative dud when it comes to sex - that's how you sound on this one.

Beg your wife to agree to something other than military position with the lights out. Maybe you'll get lucky and gain some insight into female sexuality.

P.s. hold off a bit on calling her a porn star or a hooker if she agrees, though - not all of us like that role play thing.

Well......a decent set of tits is good and some women like it and their not hookers or anything like that. I always thought a wife should be her husbands slut. It just works for me.

I've never let anybody cum on my face. I don't much care for that...tits, belly or ass is fine though.
Sometimes you can't control where it's gonna land.

All you horny dicks in here are going to jack-off on your wifes/gf tits tonight, aren't you?

I saw once on an amateur porn website where a woman posted a picture of her breasts and encouraged men to print it out, ejaculate on it and then repost a picture of it. Fucking weird shit right there. I still don't understand what she got out of it, but yanno, whatever gets you dripping..

(12-02-2013, 11:22 AM)Duchess Wrote:

(12-02-2013, 09:57 AM)crash Wrote: So...what would be the chances of you turning into a hot mess for a 5'2", short armed, ginger with blonde highlights?

I'm 5'8". I only do the wild thing with men who are bigger than me. That's my policy.

Shit. Everyone is fucking taller than me. Well except CN.

Coming on my face? No. Anywhere else is fine.

CN, you know F2 and I go at it sometime. But I honestly think she is cute. She has a girl next door prettiness. Aussie is cute too. Based on your pics, there is no way your wife is hotter than they are. Unless you are super sweet and funny away from Mock. Or she married you for your money and we know you don't have any... Anyway, it's highly doubtful you scored above a 5 in the wife department.

Fuck chain. Look scores. This shit is great.

I would imagine punching a load out onto someone's face would feel a lot like getting a big ol loogie hawked on you. Never really been turned on by the concept of looking at my seed dripping off some poor girl's face. Truth be told, I am pretty adaptable to my partner's desires so I don't think I've ever been with one who requested it. Tits, yeah, ass, of course...but never in the mug. Not to mention I'm a big postcoital makeout artist, especially if there might be time for a second round. And if I don't want a million or so little swimming Donovans all over MY face, I sure won't ask her to wear it on hers.

HotD: dressup and slow dancing are nice, even a little friendly roleplay. But they tend to be single peoples' luxuries. When you got kids of various ages running in and out the sum total of sex foreplay becomes, "Hey we got like a half-hour before they get back, get your pants off quick!" and anything that requires extra effort to disrobe from is just unnecessary.

(12-02-2013, 07:59 PM)Donovan Wrote: HotD: dressup and slow dancing are nice, even a little friendly roleplay. But they tend to be single peoples' luxuries.

Yes, I know.

Even with a teenager living on a different floor here now, it's a bit more restrictive; not so much so as with little ones though.

I remember how it was when my other niece and her brother were living with me for a few years - they were both still in elementary school.

Lots of quickies and sneakiness. That was a really fun time, too - in a different way.

I'm not really into taking one to the face either. It's happened a couple of times which was my own fault because I looked that sucker in the eye while using two hands on it. Lesson learned.

(12-02-2013, 08:24 PM)sally Wrote: I'm not really into taking one to the face either. It's happened a couple of times which was my own fault because I looked that sucker in the eye while using two hands on it. Lesson learned.

HAHAHA!!!
This might be the first time on here when I've gotten teary-eyed from laughing so fucking hard