(01-09-2014, 12:13 AM)sally Wrote:

(01-09-2014, 12:08 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I just don't feel as confident in myself as most people. You should see the amount of makeup I wear to work just to feel 'adequate'. If I knew why, I would fix it.

She's a slick one, this one. Don't let her troll you like Clang did, CN.

Indeed. Aussie is hot. She has no reason to feel adequate.

(01-09-2014, 12:08 AM)aussiefriend Wrote:

(01-08-2014, 07:53 AM)Cynical Ninja Wrote:

(01-08-2014, 05:25 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I beat myself up in social situations, feeling inadequate at times

What the hell for?

I just don't feel as confident in myself as most people. You should see the amount of makeup I wear to work just to feel 'adequate'. If I knew why, I would fix it.

white knight mode activating....

(01-09-2014, 12:08 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I just don't feel as confident in myself as most people. You should see the amount of makeup I wear to work just to feel 'adequate'.

That surprises me, Aussie, a lot. I don't get that vibe from you at all.

⁷⁄₁₁ is like a ticking time bomb. Some day she will go into work and start pegging twinkies at people and she will NOT hold back.

(01-09-2014, 01:52 PM)Duchess Wrote:

(01-09-2014, 12:08 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I just don't feel as confident in myself as most people. You should see the amount of makeup I wear to work just to feel 'adequate'.

That surprises me, Aussie, a lot. I don't get that vibe from you at all.

She's mocking us.

(01-09-2014, 01:52 PM)Duchess Wrote:

(01-09-2014, 12:08 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I just don't feel as confident in myself as most people. You should see the amount of makeup I wear to work just to feel 'adequate'.

That surprises me, Aussie, a lot. I don't get that vibe from you at all.

I get it, because of the insane amount of time and money she spends trying to stay, and look young. Aussie has low self esteem about herself...why, it's a mystery. She looks fine.

Stop worrying about what other people are thinking when they look at you Aussie. People will either like you and the way you look, or they won't. No amount of makeup or Botox is going to change that.

I told Aussie right away when she went with her dark hair that she looked great.

But, confidence is harder for some to gain and can be lost more quickly compared to others.

I don't mean to turn this into a 'woe is me' thread. I love self deprecating humour. I am always trying to improve myself and grow, I am going to a seminar tomorrow about growth and achieving goals etc. I don't want to go into details or I will get roasted in here.

The 'unworthiness' I am talking about everyone feels on some level, I am able to articulate it in a particular area.

Addit: I recently had something happen in the romance department that wreaked havoc on my self esteem. It was/still is a nightmare, I even bought a packet of cigs, I would love to go an buy another pack now. I wont.

(01-10-2014, 02:25 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I am going to a seminar tomorrow about growth and achieving goals etc.

Really? Some self help/lifestyle guru or something?

No one has all the answers to life, not even Jebus or the lord Buddha.

Wreaked havoc, Aussie?

That sounds pretty serious.

Do I dare ask what the hell happened?

For me “wreaking havoc” are the times me and the wife fuck like bunnies in heat. The old heat of the moment bend her over the dining table and bang her like a whore sessions.

(01-10-2014, 11:57 AM)Cynical Ninja Wrote: For me “wreaking havoc” are the times me and the wife fuck like bunnies in heat. The old heat of the moment bend her over the dining table and bang her like a whore sessions.

Did you miss where she said her self-esteem is/was damaged?

Maybe the dude went to bend her over the table, didn't like what he saw and couldn't get it up?

Is this ^ what you were implying?

Or, was she all dolled up waiting for a night of romance and her man at the last second pulled his boyfriend from the closet and the two men had sex in front of her?

That'd suck.

I was just describing what me and the wife would class as “wreaking havoc” really!

Maybe Aussie sometimes likes being taken roughly from behind over the dining table I don't know, I've never had that kind of conversation with her nor would I. She'd probably be horrified if I did.

Lol.

Maybe the dude went to bend her over the table, didn't like what he saw and couldn't get it up?

That statement should do wonders for Aussies self esteem.

(01-10-2014, 07:15 AM)Cynical Ninja Wrote: Really? Some self help/lifestyle guru or something?

No one has all the answers to life, not even Jebus or the lord Buddha.

Too true. But I really think that by being open to other people's point of view you can learn and grow about where they are coming from without necessarily agreeing with everything they say.

(01-10-2014, 08:08 PM)FAHQTOO Wrote: Maybe the dude went to bend her over the table, didn't like what he saw and couldn't get it up?

That statement should do wonders for Aussies self esteem.

No, it doesn't affect me at all. If only it was that simple. I feel like it was a mental mindfuck. The worst kind of fuck.

I hate when people throw something out there an there and then don't tell the whole story. Either tell it or don't. Nothing in between.

She might be talking about one or two women she works with. I've seen her refer to them as cunts before.

(01-11-2014, 12:04 PM)ramseycat Wrote: I hate when people throw something out there an there and then don't tell the whole story. Either tell it or don't. Nothing in between.

Not everyone spends their time online living their life like an open wound.

I know so much about your former gall bladder I would feel comfortable taking it to a bar for a beer.

Past the age of 25, a mind fuck is never rape - it's consensual. IMO.

How old are you? Are you gay? Are you married?

Perfectly legit questions to toss out there before you give your mind, heart or body to someone. If he won't answer for any reason, there's your answer. Get the undesired answer and let yourself fall anyway, i don't think any disappointing results are his responsibility.

You probably just need butt implants and labiaplasty surgery, Aussie. After that everything will be smooth sailing.