Cam, deleted this thread, it's a waste of space.

(10-01-2019, 08:02 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: Cam, deleted this thread, it's a waste of space.

It really depends on what side of the Cam you're on, whether it's a waste of space or not!

There are far .ore pointless threads

(04-07-2019, 09:01 PM)MirahM Wrote: Clang is fine!!!!!!!!!

Wish more ladies thought so. Lol. Rwwwr!

Ha Ha!

Clang as a completely impartial observer, i think if you want to make a connection with a lady that is completely on you.
You are a big bloke, a bit of a kook and not a good looking bloke but that describes quite a percentage of guys around your age.
I think that despite your underconfidence and general weirdness, you are not malicious and are harmless. You are amusing too. I think you probably have more to offer than you think.

I reckon you should make some close platonic female friends. Girls who don't want to fuck you and you don't want to fuck. After this, start doing blind dates with no view to anything but learn how to date and be in a romantic type setting. Don't even worry if you fuck up a few of them. It is a blind date and you were not supposed to find the one.
Eventually your confidence will grow and you'll relate better and find someone that digs you and that you want to see again.
Fuck man stranger things have happened. You aren't bad people and i think as long as you don't lead with "Nice dress, i would not mind wearing it" there is a bit to gain out of this

Thanks Fry Guy. I think part of my under confidence stems from always thinking about what happens when I eventually have to tell them I like wearing dresses. Sometimes I wonder if I should just give up wearing dresses and sacrifice some of my happiness so it would somewhat easier to meet a potential girlfriend. I mean I don't even have the confidence to go outside en femme further than my apartment lobby.

(10-06-2019, 10:14 AM)Clang McFly Wrote: Thanks Fry Guy. I think part of my under confidence stems from always thinking about what happens when I eventually have to tell them I like wearing dresses. Sometimes I wonder if I should just give up wearing dresses and sacrifice some of my happiness so it would somewhat easier to meet a potential girlfriend. I mean I don't even have the confidence to go outside en femme further than my apartment lobby.

My thoughts.
I think that every decision has pluses and minuses. There is always sacrifice in life. Always risk too. Even with good things. There is also something called opportunity cost.
In the beginning before everything gets serious, there is seriously no point is there?

(10-06-2019, 10:50 AM)Fry Guy Wrote:

(10-06-2019, 10:14 AM)Clang McFly Wrote: Thanks Fry Guy.  I think part of my under confidence stems from always thinking about what happens when I eventually have to tell them I like wearing dresses.  Sometimes I wonder if I should just give up wearing dresses and sacrifice some of my happiness so it would somewhat easier to meet a potential  girlfriend. I mean I don't even have the confidence to go outside en femme further than my apartment lobby.

My thoughts.
I think that every decision has pluses and minuses. There is always sacrifice in life. Always risk too. Even with good things. There is also something called opportunity cost.
In the beginning before everything gets serious, there is seriously no point is there?

True I guess. It's also true I seem to only attract the crazy ladies. The two dating attempts in my life were an uber Christian chick in college who had to ask a male friend of it was ok to French kiss me and admitted she used to have a crush on my second oldest brother, and a semi illiterate apeish woman who told me she loved me and tried to grope the fuck out of me on the second date.

Like sand sifting through the hourglass of time...............These are the days of our lives.

Yup they sound like keepers.
Seriously get back out there. Until they are a big part of your life you can dress up like Princess Clang all you like

There is someone out there for everyone, you just have to find them. And then when she discovers you're a fucking freak and leaves your retarded ass, you can at least say you did it.

(10-06-2019, 09:33 PM)sally Wrote: There is someone out there for everyone, you just have to find them. And then when she discovers you're a fucking freak and leaves your retarded ass, you can at least say you did it.

All that silver lining. I never saw where that was going to go.

Personally I think once he starts tearing shit out of silky under garments to get at what's underneath his value in those garments and how they feel on his skin or whatever will not be a big factor any more. Dude needs to get laid big time.

Yeah, She's staring too!

(10-06-2019, 06:28 PM)Clang McFly Wrote: a semi illiterate apeish woman who told me she loved me and tried to grope the fuck out of me on the second date.

I remember her. She wasn't good enough for you. My words, not yours.

Well wasn't she blind or something?

(10-07-2019, 11:10 AM)Maggot Wrote: Well wasn't she blind or something?

No. But she made everyone else wish they were blind.

(10-06-2019, 09:42 PM)Fry Guy Wrote:

(10-06-2019, 09:33 PM)sally Wrote: There is someone out there for everyone, you just have to find them. And then when she discovers you're a fucking freak and leaves your retarded ass, you can at least say you did it.

All that silver lining. I never saw where that was going to go.

Personally I think once he starts tearing shit out of silky under garments to get at what's underneath his value in those garments and how they feel on his skin or whatever will not be a big factor any more. Dude needs to get laid big time.

Indeed. I need more single friends and or single friends who crossdress to hang out with. Right now my boy's night is married guys who act like frat Bros and my brother whose life goal is to collect disability and mooch off the government.

(10-07-2019, 10:30 AM)Duchess Wrote:

(10-06-2019, 06:28 PM)Clang McFly Wrote: a semi illiterate apeish woman who told me she loved me and tried to grope the fuck out of me on the second date.

I remember her. She wasn't good enough for you. My words, not yours.

Yeah, I was so desperate and lonely. But even I know you don't say I love you on the second date and initiate a gropefest.

I think you need more female friends. Guys are fucking awesome but they are not girls and will not help you feel at ease around women