(10-10-2020, 06:42 PM)crash Wrote:

(10-10-2020, 06:31 PM)cannongal Wrote:

(10-10-2020, 05:42 PM)crash Wrote: I hate when they say it at all. It means I lost. That’s the end of that. Pack it up. Move on.

Clearly,  you're an idiot.   It doesn't mean 'you lost`.  It means that your partner doesn't feel safe in the situation.   Are you perpetually single?

Clearly, you misunderstood my intent, or you take things too literally and have limited experience at the subject at hand, apart from what you’ve read online.

I’m highly aware of the clinical function of the safe word, as you so effortlessly outlined above in a single sentence. But are you aware of the ramifications of it? and I’m not talking about in a session at a sleazy S&M club with someone you just met half an hour ago, I mean from a committed..

Egggh...not worth the details.

Ah, ok,   I'm sorry,  I did not understand your intent.   And sometimes,  I do take things to literally.   Which is why I don't understand  what MirahM means by  S&M .     Sadists and masochism?

I just cry.

I would think "Ow, what the fuck are you doing!" would be enough. Maybe not.

A whimper will suffice

(10-10-2020, 07:20 PM)crash Wrote: A whimper will suffice

I've thought to myself before that my husband was taking that choking thing a little too far. I said I liked it, I didnt say I wanted to die.

(10-10-2020, 07:19 PM)sally Wrote: I would think "Ow, what the fuck are you doing!" would be enough. Maybe not.

Meh,  not with that particular lifestyle.

Bondage, yea or nay?

It's a lifestyle?

The question, like the acronym BDSM, is too open. Bondage alone? Take it or leave it..

(10-10-2020, 07:41 PM)sally Wrote: It's a lifestyle?

Yes, it is.   Although,  I don't see you as someone who is into it .  Or maybe as a dom.

(10-10-2020, 07:41 PM)crash Wrote: The question, like the acronym BDSM, is too open. Bondage alone? Take it or leave it..

Dude,   you know that is totally up to you

(10-10-2020, 07:38 PM)Duchess Wrote: Bondage, yea or nay?

Nay unless it happens for real, seems silly otherwise. But what are the chances of some extremely good looking, charismatic guy breaking into my house, tying me up, raping me and then leaving?

Sally is a classic switch. But sally is too jaded with people at this point in her life to do it.

(10-10-2020, 07:48 PM)sally Wrote:

(10-10-2020, 07:38 PM)Duchess Wrote: Bondage, yea or nay?

Nay unless it happens for real, seems silly otherwise. But what are the chances of some extremely good looking, charismatic guy breaking into my house, tying me up, raping me and then leaving?

Bondage and a rape fantasy are not quite the same thing, Sal..

Is there some kind of fucking rule that I can't combine the two?

Sure...a rape fantasy may or may not contain some bondage, but a rape fantasy wouldn’t fall under the term bondage

I understand that. So I guess my answer should have been that I'm not into bondage unless it's with a handsome, charming rapist.

(10-10-2020, 07:48 PM)sally Wrote: But what are the chances of some extremely good looking, charismatic guy breaking into my house, tying me up, raping me and then leaving?

How would that go anyway, sal?

Guy breaks in:...
sal: aww fuck, I’m in the middle of doing my taxes, can you come back in an hour?
guy:...

guy an hour later: ..
sal: I just have to get the fois gras in the fridge, shower and I’ll be right with you
guy ten minutes later: rips sals clothes off, gets on top of her choking her
sal:...yeah, can we switch? I can only come when I’m on top

That's not what I pictured, I'd more likely be vacuuming. You really have a beef with that on top thing, huh?