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Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Fucking off from work today, just gonna hang out and be a freaking bum @ Mock (capitalized just for you, sweetheart). Hope you fuckers are going to be around today to entertain me.
RE: Daily greeting - ramseycat - 01-19-2012
Playing hooky and you want to hang out here?
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Weather sucks outside, and got shit to do around the house...so yeah, I'll hang out here in between overdue chores.
RE: Daily greeting - Duchess - 01-19-2012
(01-19-2012, 08:23 AM)thekid65 Wrote: Fucking off from work today, just gonna hang out and be a freaking bum @ Mock (capitalized just for you, sweetheart). Hope you fuckers are going to be around today to entertain me.
Thanks!
I have to be gone for a couple hours but I'll return by noon.
RE: Daily greeting - ramseycat - 01-19-2012
You know Kid, you sound pretty happy for someone going through a divorce.
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.
With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.
I could go on and on, and on.
In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.
RE: Daily greeting - Middle Finger - 01-19-2012
Howdy, Kid.
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Morning MF, care for a beer?
RE: Daily greeting - Middle Finger - 01-19-2012
Sure ... anything Sam Adams works for me bud.
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Nice choice, they make a good brew. Closest I can come at the moment is a Fat Tire though. I might have a stray bottle of Alaskan Amber if I look hard enough out in the garage...
RE: Daily greeting - LuciferLynn - 01-19-2012
I woke up this morning thinking it was Friday....turns out it isn't. Fuck that shit.
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
No worries, you arent the first woman that doesnt have a clue of what day of the week it is.
RE: Daily greeting - LuciferLynn - 01-19-2012
If I wasn't working 50-60 hours a week I might have an idea. Days all run into each other, one after the other.
RE: Daily greeting - ramseycat - 01-19-2012
(01-19-2012, 11:37 AM)thekid65 Wrote: Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.
With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.
I could go on and on, and on.
In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.
It does suck Kid. Even though we know we are doing the right thing, it's still hard. But it gets better! Enjoy the quiet. And always remember you love your kid/s more than you dislike your ex. That is a lesson my ex has never quite gotten.
RE: Daily greeting - IMaDick - 01-19-2012
(01-19-2012, 11:37 AM)thekid65 Wrote: Lemmee tellya Ramsey, I'm not..and I truly wish things would have worked out. I dont like to fail, and I have, after 8 years. I've got a pretty large, and now relatively empty house. The holidays completely sucked donkey balls. I cannot recall ever waking up alone on Christmas morning.
With that being said, it was getting to a point to where I did not want to come home after work....it was getting to a point to where I was uncomfortable in my own home...it was getting to a point to where I couldnt say the simplest of things, w/o fear of it leading to an argument.
I could go on and on, and on.
In the long run, I know it's the best thing...but that doesnt change the fact that it still sucks, and I wish it wasnt so. I wouldnt classify my feelings as happy by any stretch. Relieved? Perhaps...like I said in another post, it's a mixed bag.
You did go on and on.
It takes 2 to fail, and 2 to mess up a relationship.
While you were feeling all sorry for yourself and how fucked up you felt in the relationship, you forgot all about how she was feeling.
She was as alone as you were.
RE: Daily greeting - thekid65 - 01-19-2012
Thanks for pointing out the incredibly obvious Dick.
No doubt about it that it was a 50⁄50 deal. I dont think you'll see any mention in any post from me otherwise. Nor will you ever read me posting anything negative about her. And I havent forgotten her feelings in the least little bit. We've both been rather cordial through this whole deal...albeit the communication is defo uncomfortable.
When ya have time to reflect, and really take a hard look at shit...you can sometimes see how little you had in common, and that perhaps you shouldnt have been married in the first place.
RE: Daily greeting - IMaDick - 01-19-2012
or maybe it's the 16 "I's" in the first post and the similar attitude which is in the second.
Two people living as "I's" don't stand a chance. a relationship is "we" or "you". Not Me an I.
I went through a similar deal many years ago, it taught me how to be successful in a relationship, and what it takes to build a successful relationship.
It's all about the direction of thought it always has to be outward, when it turns inward and the thought process is all about "I" then failure is just a matter of time. two people living in the "I" world will never make it.
RE: Daily greeting - Duchess - 01-19-2012
(01-19-2012, 01:09 PM)IMaDick Wrote: two people living in the "I" world will never make it.
How about a me world? It's all about me. Memememe.
RE: Daily greeting - IMaDick - 01-19-2012
(01-19-2012, 01:14 PM)Duchess Wrote:(01-19-2012, 01:09 PM)IMaDick Wrote: two people living in the "I" world will never make it.
How about a me world? It's all about me. Memememe.
Words can confusing but me and I are the same thing.
RE: Daily greeting - Duchess - 01-19-2012
Yes, Dick, I know. Can I please just dick around?