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I couldn't cheat. It'd be like the beating heart in the Poe story. I could do the swinging thing though. Hell ya.
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Please your significant other, and you won't have to worry (much) about cheating. Leave something to be desired, and you can be certain that before you catch on to his'/her's activities they'll have gone around the block at least a couple times.
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I sort of agree with Ana. But on the other hand I know guys that just cheat. It really has nothing to do with their wives or how much they love them or how much sex they have with them. They just like a little strange. I have no respect for a guy like that. Why be married if you can't be with just one person. I feel sorry for their wives. And I bet these guys would freak if their wives were doing the same thing.
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People who like to cheat just need to give up marriage altogether. Join a harem or something.
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Some men are just dogs and want sex with anyone they can get it from. They shouldn't GET married.
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Momster Wrote:Some men are just dogs and want sex with anyone they can get it from. They shouldn't GET married.
That's what I'm saying. It has nothing to do with their wives. They love them and have sex with them regularly. The wife isn't hideous. The dudes just like variety. It's the thrill of the chase. They should not be married. And I bet they would be singing a whole different tune if their wives were stepping out.
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Sex can also be an addiction. No matter what the quality or quantity they are getting at home could NEVER be enough.
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Sinister Wrote:AnonyMoose Wrote:I understand Ramsey's story about the couple that didn't want to break up the family unit because they had children.
I think staying in an unhappy marriage because of children is damaging to the marriage and the children.
I agree with that. There have been times that I have wondered if leaving my ex was the right thing to do for the kids. But then I realize that yes it was. I don't want them growing up thinking that my marriage was the way marriage should be.
With my ex-FWB he doesn't want to loose his son. He wants to be able to be with him everyday. Plus, this is his second marriage and his first wife moved out of state with the kids and it kills him that he can't see them all the time. I guess people have their reasons for doing what they do.
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AnonyMoose Wrote:ramseycat Wrote:With my ex-FWB he doesn't want to loose his son. He wants to be able to be with him everyday. Plus, this is his second marriage and his first wife moved out of state with the kids and it kills him that he can't see them all the time. I guess people have their reasons for doing what they do.
The rights that the court awards to step parents is laughable in most States.
I didn't mean lose his son as in he would never see him. I meant lose him as in shared custody. And it's his son with his second wife. He has 2 with the first and 1 with the second.
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