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in bed with your spouse? OBK's topic made me think of this.
Would you ever allow another person in bed with you and your spouse or SO?
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Unless that third person was fluffing my pillow and serving me a cold beer I'd have to pass.
Liz is all I can handle.
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I wouldn't want a third person either. I think it's just trouble waiting to happen. If you are not satisifed by your partner in bed, chances are there are other problems outside the bedroom that are the cause.
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I find I would have to agree on this one. When I was younger (god, talking like I'm old and I'm only 28...) I'd have taken a 3 some. However, now I would rather just deeply please, and be pleased by, a single woman.
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No, I would never participate in that with someone I loved.
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I know people it works for.
Hell you do that kind of shit when you are younger but I think most people are (regardless of the "primal instincts" theories) looking for a soulmate and that person you feel attached to. A person you bond to. That does not sit easily with "you are attached romantically with this person so let's throw another in the mix and expect better dynamics".
If it ain't broke don't fuck with it. Literally
I'd rather not share my bed with one other person, much less two. ::jerk2::
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I've been in a threesome but I was the number three. My friend had a fantasy about seeing his girlfriend fuck another guy so I volunteered.
During the act it was okay, but afterwards, guilt, regret, awkwardness, existential emptiness and a friendship ruined forever.
I would never and have never done it again. Also I would never like to see my wife getting fucked by another guy because I love her.
We need to punish the French, ignore the Germans and forgive the Russians - Condoleezza Rice.
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It's all fun and games until the other guy's. jiszm lands on your thigh.