02-08-2010, 03:24 PM
(02-08-2010, 02:56 PM)sally Wrote: When someone does you a favor and you start to see that it's more complicated and taking more time than expected then common courtesy would be to say '"hey, I don't expect you to do all this for free, what are the incidentals and what do you think would be fair". You make sure you get a straight answer out of them so you can avoid this kind of situation. Did you do that?
True but playing devil's advocate, that assumes that Frank knew that it was more complicated and taking more time than expected. Plus, if you're doing someone a favor and it starts to spin out of control, its completely reasonable to be forthright and tell the person that its taking more time than you anticipated and set some boundaries (i.e., charge for the time or stretch the favor out so it fits within your timeframe or whatever).
I don't think Frank was out to screw Ant. Like I said before, it sounds like a misunderstanding/failure to communicate.
I don't really care. I just want them to make-up. All this negative energy is draining my chi. ::lol::
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