12-13-2010, 05:47 PM
(11-09-2010, 03:59 PM)Duchess Wrote:(11-09-2010, 03:33 PM)Lady Cop Wrote: Spader’s mother, Christine Spader, wept briefly; his father was stoic.
How does a parent deal with this kind of thing, with knowing your kid is a monster? I wonder if they are ever able to get past their love for their child & see the horror that everyone else does.
Kids don't get that way on their own. They are allowed to develop into monsters. Somebody should have beat his ass and put a little fear of God into him. Some kids are spoiled to the point of ruination nowadays. This is the result. It's too late to try to fix a grown child, they should have had more guidance through the formative years.
I have been pretty lucky so far with mine. It isn't really luck, though. It took years of hard work, a little physical violence, and a lot of waiting up late nights to make sure they acquired the habits they needed to not be fucked in the head. I didn't ignore the bad things they did or give them excuses to continue. I dropped the fucking hammer. My kids would tell you they had a great childhood. They don't remember too many punishments, but the lessons did sink in. I have no sympathy for people who raised monsters. They let it happen.