01-07-2011, 01:37 AM
I know a few couples I consider healthy couples. They get along, they work together, they have separate interests, and they split the duties. That would be a bearable situation to me. That isn't the reality in most relationships. There is usually one needier person the other is willing to put up with in order to get what they want. I resent being expected to do things for another adult they can just as easily do themselves. If I want to do it, that's different, but who wants to nurture another adult? Most people need to grow the fuck up and be something besides a titty baby or a dictator.
All marriage is a crap shoot. You don't know what you are going to get five or ten years down the road. People are very good at hiding what they really are.
All marriage is a crap shoot. You don't know what you are going to get five or ten years down the road. People are very good at hiding what they really are.