01-13-2011, 05:44 PM
(01-13-2011, 09:02 AM)Duchess Wrote:
Females need to be raised to be self sufficient & I really don't understand why some parents don't get that, it's so important. I have a man in my life because I want one not because I need one. Men are to be enjoyed not counted on to handle things the chick either can't or doesn't know how to.
Most men are takers! My sister is married to a man that is using her and they are in sooooo much debt its not funny. They have the house, the cars, ballet lessons for the child and are now looking around for a private school for her. The thing is, they dont own any of it its all owned by the bank. My sister is good at managing money but with this man in her life he is using her and they are broke and full of themselves to boot. I don't have a relationship with her because of him but my mother tells me all the goss.
Its a nice liberating feeling being in the black but if i had some guy in my life guaranteed he would be on the take.