01-13-2011, 05:55 PM
(01-13-2011, 05:44 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: Most men are takers! My sister is married to a man that is using her and they are in sooooo much debt its not funny. They have the house, the cars, ballet lessons for the child and are now looking around for a private school for her. The thing is, they dont own any of it its all owned by the bank. My sister is good at managing money but with this man in her life he is using her and they are broke and full of themselves to boot. I don't have a relationship with her because of him but my mother tells me all the goss.
I'm surprised you work in mental health and you allow yourself to blame your sister's husband like it is ALL him. If your sister were truly good at managing money, she would put her foot down and not be spending to keep up an imagined status. Be honest with yourself about this if you intend to find some sort of resolution. If you would rather pretend it is ALL your brother-in-law, your choice.