07-15-2011, 09:27 PM
(07-15-2011, 04:28 PM)Mohammed Wrote: So now am at a stage where I don't really see cheating as cheating on my wife but more so on my daugther. Cos once I do it is pretty much her who will go thru all the resulting troubles, anguish and pain that will eventually follow.
Very true, it's not about being selfish anymore once you have a child- have to think about someone other than yourself.
I guess a lot of it does have to do with self respect & really respect for others as well. I struggle w/a blanket feeling about infidelity as every situation is a little different. I don't necessarily equate sex w/emotion.
It's the hint of arsenic that gives it that extra kick.