09-05-2011, 12:16 PM
(09-05-2011, 11:15 AM)Nina Wrote: I don't feel alone at all. I have a wide group of friends, men and women, and I don't have to deal with anyone else's issues unless I choose to.
One of these husbands got caught because he was at a hotel room with his 21 yr old fling and she had to call an ambulance because they thought he was having a heart attack! ha ha ha. Bet that was fun to talk about with her college buddies.
I'm at a loss with many of my friends for this very reason. They are desperately waiting for some man to come along and rescue them. That affects how they live their lives. They don't plan ahead with money or plan for their own future. They are just waiting. They put their eggs in the man-basket. It's very hard to convince them that they are living NOW, not just waiting. Independence doesn't come standard, I think, in all people.
Too funny about getting busted in a hotel room. I wish there was video of that!