10-15-2011, 09:07 AM
(10-14-2011, 09:36 PM)Harvest Moon Wrote: Yes from the pictures and videos, Lisa looks like she was loved and her basic needs were met. I have question: Has the quality of care changed so much in the last 20 years that the mother, who is not breast-feeding, thinks it is acceptable to hand her less than 10-month-old a bottle to drink from on her own? Whenever I gave my babies a bottle, it was a time for me to snuggle with them. The video that is Lisa called something like "Lisa yelling at Mom LOL", is disturbing to me. Damn right the poor little girl is yelling, the poor thing wants to be picked up and held when she is drinking the bottle. JMO
I think she was just saying that for the video. The baby doesn't look old enough in that video to even be able to hold her own bottle yet, but if she is then I say by all means let her. I thought it was a relief when my kids were able to drink a bottle on their own.