12-27-2011, 07:43 PM
I think someone needs to spend a year or two on the otherside of the issue.
It's so fucking easy to sit and be a bitch when you're the one receiving and not the one paying, it's a whole different feeling and one that most women don't get.
Do I think he could have sent the kids a little something sure he could have and should have, but I do understand where he is at a little.
When me and my first wife were getting divorced back in 1980, I had a set child support payment, money was really tight, I talked to her about Christmas, she agreed to accept half so that I could afford to give my kids some presents to unwrap Christmas day when they came to visit, I was served papers on new years eve a show cause order to appear and show why I should not be held in contempt for not paying the full amount in the month of december, the bitch went to the DA and filed after agreeing to forgive 1⁄2 for the month of december, I was sentenced to 10 days for contempt and put on probation (which was suspended by the probation office as a work release, it didn't make any sense to them to lock me up for not paying and make it impossible for me to pay) , from then on I was required to pay my support through the probation office.
I didn't send another gift for birthdays or Christmas instead I put money in a savings account they got that when they turned 18 and my ex got the finger.
By the way Ialso got my support payments lowered through the probation office, the court no longer had jurisdiction, she couldn't do a fucking thing about it.
like I said maybe you should sit on the otherside of the equation for awhile, fucking women are hard to deal with.
It's so fucking easy to sit and be a bitch when you're the one receiving and not the one paying, it's a whole different feeling and one that most women don't get.
Do I think he could have sent the kids a little something sure he could have and should have, but I do understand where he is at a little.
When me and my first wife were getting divorced back in 1980, I had a set child support payment, money was really tight, I talked to her about Christmas, she agreed to accept half so that I could afford to give my kids some presents to unwrap Christmas day when they came to visit, I was served papers on new years eve a show cause order to appear and show why I should not be held in contempt for not paying the full amount in the month of december, the bitch went to the DA and filed after agreeing to forgive 1⁄2 for the month of december, I was sentenced to 10 days for contempt and put on probation (which was suspended by the probation office as a work release, it didn't make any sense to them to lock me up for not paying and make it impossible for me to pay) , from then on I was required to pay my support through the probation office.
I didn't send another gift for birthdays or Christmas instead I put money in a savings account they got that when they turned 18 and my ex got the finger.
By the way Ialso got my support payments lowered through the probation office, the court no longer had jurisdiction, she couldn't do a fucking thing about it.
like I said maybe you should sit on the otherside of the equation for awhile, fucking women are hard to deal with.
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