What do young people say about you?

[Teacher]

I agree with Carsman's idea. That's exactly what I was going to post when I finished reading this thread because I did that - and it eventually worked. But the parents (who are great friends of ours) were madder than hell when they received the letter and were in complete denial. But Dad started investigating (snooping) when his teen-age daughters went out for the evening - which was every night. Of course, he found out the truth, and fortunately, they got the girls under control. Both daughters are now wonderful adults and mothers themselves. The main thing you have to remember is you don't tell a soul you were the one who sent the anonymous letter - ever - including your spouse.

By the way, my sons' overall opinion is that I'm "cool". Many of my elementary students wanted me to be their mother - would beg to come live with me.