So the boyfriend

[Cracker]

I do love him, I just have serious doubts he's ever going to grow up and become the man I need.

I think there is an age limit on fucking up the big things in life. I don't know your age, but if your boyfriend is over the age of 24, it is time to let him grow up on his own.

Never move a man into your own house. Trade up from now on. Only date men who are in a better circumstance than you are. If someone can't manage to acquire and keep their own things, they aren't going to be a good example for children.

I know you are sad, but you have the gift of kids. You will be okay. Kids are better than men. And they will still love you when you have pink eye. You don't want them to get used to visiting people in jail. Ask Maytee.