02-09-2012, 09:30 PM
I don't think I'm a slut for having a couple of one night stands back in the day, but some people might think it. I guess it depends on your definition of slut. Some people might consider me a slut because I have had lots of sex without being married (mostly very long term relationships, but some not). Others might think because I didn't know the two fiiiine one night stand men well beforehand (but did afterwards) that it was slutty, but still not consider me a slut as it isn't/wasn't a pattern of ongoing behavior. And, still others like LuciferLynn's friend might think only two one-nighters back in my 20s makes me almost a born again virgin.
It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks and it's not like I would bring it up in conversation IRL, so how woud people that I interface with personally even know or care? I enjoyed myself and didn't hurt anyone or get hurt. My niece and nephew weren't home at the times. I feel fine about it, just not something I'd do now that I'm wiser and more responsible (and in many ways, less fun but more secure).
It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks and it's not like I would bring it up in conversation IRL, so how woud people that I interface with personally even know or care? I enjoyed myself and didn't hurt anyone or get hurt. My niece and nephew weren't home at the times. I feel fine about it, just not something I'd do now that I'm wiser and more responsible (and in many ways, less fun but more secure).