02-20-2012, 01:59 PM
(02-20-2012, 01:54 PM)ramseycat Wrote: Cracker: Does he pay child support? I'm not clear on that.
He pays some of it but not the ordered amount. He hasn't paid for their health insurance for over a year and that is his responsibility. I am responsible for co-pays. But I pay all of it now. He also deducted $383 one week for a plane ticket he said he bought for our youngest to go to Florida even though I said he couldn't go and miss a week of school and CPS said he can't take the kids out of state. That is a willfull violation and I could have had him put in jail but I didn't. See Dick, I can be nice sometimes too.
ramsey, be prepared not to win this one: http://www.nycourts.gov/divorce/forms_in...s/ud-8.pdf
NY does figure in your income. You obviously make more than he does. Plus, if you figure in attorney fees (great fucking tax deduction, btw, the best one), it may harm you more in the long run to fight this out in court.
Just giving you another perspective. It gets old worrying about shit like that. Can you meet somewhere in the middle? Agree to a reduction PLUS a chunk of that account maybe?