04-16-2012, 10:56 PM
(04-16-2012, 10:37 PM)Donovan Wrote: missed wide right. I'm about as easygoing a partner as it gets, but she has baggage related to cheating exes. Actually my life experience without going into detail has made me extremely comfortable in my own skin and alone for extended periods of time, and I occasionally need to be reminded to rejoin the social sphere so I don't disappear entirely. A lot of people seem to have difficulty with that habit, especially when I disappear and can't really fully account for where I was or what I was doing. You can imagine that a person with trust issues might struggle.
Dude, if you've given your imaginary girlfriend cheating exes, jealousy with internet flirting, and trust issues, I think it might be you that has the baggage - just sayin'. You really better wait for aussiefriend, I'm in over my head here. Don't disappear! She's in another time zone and usually drops by later in the evening.
If this is about a "real" girlfriend, meh, everybody's got their shit and she sounds like she's (too) good for/to you. And, possibly you like having someone who needs nurturing? I take off by myself for days just because, but I am always able to account for my time. If you lose time and can't account for days, not even aussiefriend will be able to help you, I'm afraid. Now, if instead you're off with RG and the Polish prostitutes and are just not "willing" to account for your time, your girlfriend will rightfully dump your selfish ass soon enough - problem solved.
This concludes my contribution to the bonding and amateur psych portion of this thread. My head hurts.